Lou, I'm glad you had a nice couple of days. The path you are traveling will have some twists and turns and bumps along the way, but you'll learn to navigate them as you travel.
Why would he send it from an account that has both names? Well, it could be the only account he has now or it's his way of telling you that they are together. He figures that the best way to tell you is the way he did it, i.e., w/o having to tell you directly. It's a passive way of doing things.
None of us have done anything to warrant this kind of behavior, but it's the crisis that brings this out in them. They become childish and self absorbed and don't want to tell "mom" or "dad" what they are doing directly, so they find other ways to do so. I can remember those days of crazy behavior as if they were yesterday...but please do not take it personally. He's a child now and the crisis is calling and you'll see even more crazy behavior before it is all over with.
Live your life to the fullest and allow the man upstairs to watch over and take care of your h. He's a broken man that needs to be fixed properly and only he can do it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
