Hi Jefe - This reads a bit like - hey, if I decided I wanted you back at some point how would that work. Has your W ever shown true remorse for what has happened? It doesn't read like true remorse. Are you willing to settle for less than true remorse?
You could respond with something like - Hey, this is a big question to answer by text, but we can talk about it at some point if you want? Then leave well alone until or unless your W raises it?
When she does, be ready to lay down your conditions. Remember Jefe, your W has been unfaithful. This is a time for her to win you back, not the other way round, okay?
I would avoid getting into a text discussion about this..
x 2 to all that ^^^^.
My favorite responses in these key situations are either:
"Hmmm, I'm not sure how I feel about that anymore."
Or
""I'm afraid it's not that simple anymore. I'd have to think about it, as I'm not sure how I feel about this anymore."
