Talked to W, says she ended things with OM. I went with DB coach and IC advice on not asking to see NC letter. Taking leap of faith here.( I know, I know...) but there never is real proof anyway right? went to MC, my W big issue with me is my controlling ways. Says she's been dragged down by them for past 20 years,she kept feelings all inside. I don't see it but I realize that most men don't when that's the case. I was told just the fact that I wanted to feel her remorse and humility before addressing our marriage issues was controlling in of itself, by C. HUH? Does that sound right? I just want to know she is committing to M. I don't think she is yet. And I feel we're in MC too soon. Im agreeing to work on controlling issues and at the same time I'm hoping it will draw out the remorse/ humility I know she holds inside. I know I can't control her and I'm not going to demand it from her. But again I dont know if I can forgive without seeing those things. Taking it slow.
