Gwen, You have to do what you need to do in order to survive and take care of your children. Hopefully the judge will review the case and either rule that he continue to pay the set amount or he may increase it.
I do hope that your h will begin to communicate more w/you and listen to what you have to say. Have you thought of doing a spreadsheet of expenses and sharing it w/him so that he can see for himself what is coming in and what is going out? Sometimes when they see it in black and white they can comprehend better what is going on.
Keep up the good work. You are doing well for what you are going through.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
