You know... I'm tired of the "don't reply to her texts too soon" thing. Timing texts makes me think too much of her. If she sends a text that needs answering... I answer as briefly and as soon as possible as other have suggested I do. Like I would to a co-worker I don't know well. If it's something nasty or personal... I don't respond at all.
I've been answering her phone calls since Wednesday b/c she said she appreciated a talk I initiated then and she likes to talk. But honestly... she's pushing it with the amount of phone calls again. That's how I'm feeling right now. I want to go 4 weeks with no R talk and only seeing her at our son's basketball games.
I saw your W also says you're childish b/c you don't return texts. And then you find out she wanted to ask you about something minor. Same here. I'm seriously tempted to get a GF and just block her phone calls!
Good luck to you.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014