Well not much to say since my last update except to say that since implementation of very LC/NC I am noticing a bit of minor spew emanating from W.. I'm still confused as to whether I should be expecting this, or whether my path is wrong and that is what is causing this..
A perfect example of what is happening is in the transcript of texts that were sent today.. The only before story to go along with this is that she rang to speak to the kids (which eldest S answered her call) and I hung up when she had finished speaking to younger S.. I had no idea that she wanted to talk to me.. We were wanting to go in to a GAL activity at the time..
Here it is:
Missed call W Missed call W
W: Why did you hang up
Missed call W
W: Why are you being childish??.. I needed to say something..
Missed call W
Me: I understand how you could feel that I am being childish, but that is definitely not the case.. I am a busy having fun and watching S6+9 at the moment.. I will speak with you in some way later..
Missed call W
W: You weren't when you were talking to S6 and he handed the phone to you and you hung up, and that is before you went in so who is being the childish one??..
Me: I didn't realise that you wanted to talk, and as I mentioned earlier, I am busy at the moment and will talk to you at some stage later.. It's not really the appropriate place to be texting you backwards and forwards..
Missed call W
W: Whatever.. S6 said it and I heard him (there was no mention)..
Me: I'm going now.. Have a good day..
W: Okay.. I already left the conversation as I'm not playing your silly games..
I didn't reply to this message and let it be.. 30 mins later I get:
W: Hope the boys have fun, and when is the best time to call..
Me: They are.. I will message you when I have a spare moment..
About an hour later I sent a message to W saying she could ring quickly, to which she called almost immediately.. The whole "needing to chat" thing was just to ask when she could call the boys later..
Keep in mind, there is no reason for her to call them on my phone as S9 has a phone with a valid number so she can call him directly..
This whole exchange took place over about 1.5 hours.. I was replying in my own time, and was really too interested in what the boys were doing..
Another thing that has her going ATM is the fact that I unfriended her from FB.. She deactivated her account for a week or so.. I was doing a friend list cleanup and saw 4-5 people with "facebook user" next to their name so I deleted them.. I didn't realise that one was W.. She asked me to add her again today to which I replied with "Nah" and left it at that.. Keep in mind that she relayed the question through S6..
So, back to what I am thinking.. Is this to be expected??.. Is it from her losing control of the sitch??.. Is it the WAW mind playing up??.. Any input would be appreciated..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..