Why did you try to reach out to her when she hasn't done anything to show that would be welcome? Is it really worth the pain of her reaction?
I know that my ex and I are comfortable now but we are not friends, we are parents. We share alot of history, most of which he chooses to draw a blank on. I am more than happy to be a big part of my kids lives. I am good with that.
Refocus.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory