I guess I was trying to save the relationship by talking and validating and apologizing, and I didn't jump on the family therapy offer right away as what I was doing seemed to be making progress. She brought it up so I figured it is an option, I would have of course preferred marriage therapy to try to save the marriage first. I'm thinking either would be helpful. Not trying to be defensive. Not sure how I should respond differently and I appreciate your input greatly..

I guess what I am asking is would it be beneficial to my marriage and my family. I see that some people don't like the therapy route. I believe I would enjoy it, but I am looking to save my marriage, not just talk. I want to do what works, or at least has the best chance of working towards saving my marriage.

Last edited by staytog; 01/18/15 02:36 AM.
H49 W48
She left 12/25/2013

SS26 SS 24 D20 S19 D 18

Wife moved out left 17, 18 an 19 yr olds at home when I was incarcerated for tax evasion to take a job and live 4 hours away.

I found DB 12/2014