If she responds it's her current mood, if she doesn't she left her phone in the loo, it's out of charge, eaten by the dog, she is eating a giant Easter egg. So what, why are you trying to control W, and if not controlling W your reactions to W?
Read this multiple times. I think it is extremely applicable. Best to you MCS, have a good flight!
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14