I thought everything was okay.....(Part 3)

[Vanilla]

MCS

Detachment, oh!

My friend MCS you haven't got it yet! Why do you feel detachment is distance! Why do you feel letting go is floating free?

Rethink.

Detachment means letting go of the outcome not letting go of the goal. You can still want to DB, you can still want to R and can work towards that. Detachment means trying a 180, GAL, LRT or whatever and if it does not work move on.

So you could have email/text "I have left the kids with our good neighbour X as I am being picked up and am going to the airport. She will contact me if you haven't collected the kids by Y o'clock and then I will make other arrangements"

MLC, some guys and girls are detached and still working towards M. Look at V, if V tried to interpret every twist and turn of her H, she would be in an insane asylum by now. That does not mean she isn't standing for her M.

If W responds it's her current mood, if she doesn't she left her phone in the loo, it's out of charge, eaten by the dog, she is eating a giant Easter egg. So what, why are you trying to control W, and if not controlling W your reactions to W? But I would think a text like that would sort it out and stop her pressing your buttons.

Let go, it's time, stop fretting, let the past stay in the past.

V