So more than anything, I urge you to continue to work on your stuff and let him work on his stuff and give the marriage the time it needs to heal. And understand more than anything that it is going to be one step forward and two steps back for a while. And that is ok.
I am not saying be a doormat. What I am saying is day by day. A friend of mine had a mantra that he used every day and others borrowed over the years...I think it is appropriate in this situation...
Today is not the day I quit. No matter what, I can handle whatever happens today. Tomorrow, I might change my mind, but today I do not quit.
I love this^^....
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