The whole nap could be the blood sugars going all over the place but the ADs work better after a month or even longer. I started with the lowest dosage possible, so I could build up from there. I did not need to increase it though. I feel the lowest dosage is working for me. But, every person is different, maybe you need a different kind of AD and for that you need to talk to your doctor about the side effects.
I also noticed that I felt good with the ADs but at first it gives you a sense of happiness but you are still struggling with the many worries and problems so it can put you to sleep because you escape from the troubles. It's very psychological so maybe you can ask you IC about the behavior.
Our minds work strangely well, and will in some ways protect us from harm. Be careful and try to find the source of these side effects. It's very important because you can go from irritated and angry to a very deep depression even taking the ADs.
Thanks for posting on my thread, I am in a very difficult spot right now. I need to make some decisions and I am very mixed up with all what is going on.
My H is not so much like your W, but is similar in some ways. He can't just leave me alone, he goes for a few days then he text, call or come to the house with some subject, or about the kids schedule, or to let me know what is his schedule, or ask for some paper. It's amazing that he always find the way to be connected.
I even ask myself why he does this if he wants out. I am giving him all the space he needs, I almost never call him for anything. But, as DB says I should not ask too many questions of why he does what he does and just pay attention to his actions.
It's like he says something and does different stuff. Well it's a soap opera and right now I really don't see how it will all end. It's running it's course to a D, but who knows, life changes and it may be all different tomorrow.
Hope your life keeps the good stuff as it is in that direction right now. You have been changing yourself. Doing the baby steps so it is a slow but constant grow in your spirit.