Thanks Sandi... You are right it is her choices that are causing the move along with the hard stuff right now. After I posted here I turned to my best friend and his wife to vent to. They asked me the tough question... Did she say she was going to change? Is she giving up on the negative choices? I said no, to which they replied then she needs to move out. At first it will suck but it will allow room for happy Andy to return.

I think I'm going to give acting as if I'm already D from her. I agree with you that it might just make things easier right now. The start of school and this crazy new adventure is about to begin. It's going to take a lot of my focus so I need to have my head in the game there. It simply can't be if she continues to do what she is doing and living in the house.


M:34 W:34
D:8 D:5
M:10 T:15
BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14
PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)