So, a quick post (for me) on something that happened the other day....just to put some things in perspective....I'm darned if I do, darned if I don't.
------ School had been canceled due to weather, I used to send W a text about things coming from the school office, but she told me that was me overstepping, because she got the emails too...Also, work for both of us was canceled, so we both were not at work for the day.
So, we had made plans earlier that W was going to pick up kids after school because I was going out of town during the day for work.
I had IC in the morning and decided I didn't want to just call W to work out how to change plans because of what she's said to me before.
So I emailed her almost 2 hours before I needed to go and said "W, I have the kids with me since school is closed. I'm getting picked up to go to the airport at XX:XX. I can have them go over a neighbors if you can't pick them up before then, just let me know"
I waited 45 minutes and got no response. So then I texted her. "W, I sent you an email, we need to coordinate kids pickups since I'm leaving soon to go to the airport"
Timestamp showed she read it right after I sent it. So then I waited another 15 minutes to see if she responded back.
So, now I'm within a half hour of leaving, I already took the kids to the neighbors (who wasn't too happy because she was the 'go-between' when W wouldn't see me at all and doesn't want to see or talk to W right now. But neighbor said it was okay.)
I finally called W. I said the situation and first thing she said to me sarcastically "Well, this isn't much notice. I guess I'll try to head over that way now."
I had so many things that I wanted to say, but my response was "Yeah, the snow put a wrench in our plans"
So, you can see, that's how I've been dealing with my anger with her most of the time.
Last edited by MCS; 01/17/1507:18 PM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)