So I know I'm probsbly going to get blasted for saying this... But my W decided that this morning when she got home from work she wanted to talk about splitting stuff up and her moving out. In that conversation she said "well you said we couldn't couldn't continue to live like this the other day". .... Basically it left me feeling like I've now pushed her out... And honestly like ice just doomed things.... I know this isn't a valid statement but I'm trying to adopt the policy of posting the good and the bad... Both in my sitch and how I'm feeling about things.... There was also a lot of teary eyes on both our parts.
On the plus side I changed the way the conversation was conducted. Allowed myself to listen and validate her feelings where appropriate. Work in progress... Also on the GAL I'm going out to work party tonight... And I actually went out and bought a nice shirt and tie. In the past I haven't gone to these sort of things.
M:34 W:34 D:8 D:5 M:10 T:15 BD: 10/10/14 D filed: 10/21/14 PA/EA:09/2013 EA:09/2014 - on going (online)
