The way things went the last few days also caused sth bad. With the snooping etc. I actually might have done the final push for her to be out. One of her last texts was "things are becoming very real now". Since then she went dark on me. Is that a good thing or no? It feels horrible to me bc even with what was going on she seemed to care about me and texted me on a daily basis. Is that script how things just usually go down?
Sure I can also use it to focus on myself but it feels like I lost my power over the situation - which I probably never did. But it's just like "now she's completely gone and I helped her"
Having the information IS power. Because before you were being fooled. Today you are learning more and more what you are really dealing with. Like what we said about intel, it's best not to reveal intel.
You might alert her family know if you are friends with them that there is some trouble in the relationship, but don't try to get them to take your side.
Take care of your physical person and appearance and be responsible in your life. Right now the current wife is dishonest and is not working with you. You might get small nuggets here and there from her, but you cannot count on it.
