Mighty, you HAVE that strength of your mom....everyone here sees it. You just need to BELIEVE it.

bea, I think you're spot-on. They will avoid that guilt at all costs in many ways, including mood swings and irrational comments. Until and unless they truly face it? They're goners.

Mighty, I may be quiet, but I'm still here, cheering in sign language smile. Sending hugs and prayers, and positive everything your way, my dear friend.

Keep going. Remember who you truly are. And remember how unbelievably worthy you are of a peaceful life, and being treated with love and respect. No one can take that from you. Whatever they do.... They just can't. Unless you forget that. So don't. K? K. wink