I think our biggest mistake was just being happy and feeling everything would fall into place. We went to MC 3 times.... In our sessions we were just talking about everything that happened during S. It was a lot of trust, current plans, discussion of should H move back in, etc
We should have continued going. At our last session the beginning of October he said next time we need to talk about what got both of you to the point of separation so that we can avoid it again in the future. He wanted to figure out what are big issues were with each other and how we could fix them.
So MC for is just talked about S and trust issues and we hadn't gotten to the big long issues that we needed to work on.
Last week MC told us he wants to see us together weekly and individually weekly for at least 6 weeks and then we will reevaluate if we still need IC or just MC and if we can space it to every 2 weeks.
I think I have a lot to work on still but I have made some big changes and he hasn't really made any. I get frustrated that the person he was to come home seems to have disappeared.
I don't want excuses anymore - I want results! Lol
But seriously I am willing to do all of my part but I need someone that wants to do their half.
