Don't want to hijack your thread so if you are interested in my sitch it is in newcomers 'do I tell him all I know'. I am bored with my own sitch by now!
I didnt realize your H lived in Russia.
Are you providing for any of his needs?
How detached are you and how can you detach even more.
The thing is these affairs seem to go on as long as they last, and the script seems to be that when the light of day hits that is when they fall apart.
Sorry you are bored with your sich. What can you do to keep moving forward.