It is very ok to have differing viewpoints and it's one of the things we learn to accept here and well as how to hopefully discuss those things without getting worked up and nasty
Much of my growth here has been this ^^^
I was so fearful, insecure, rigid, reactive I couldn't tolerate viewpoints other than my own. (you may recall )
Just being able to observe: "That's their VP, doesn't have to be mine but let me think about it" or "This is my VP based on my life experience and my needs. Others may differ" decreases anxiety and opens up so many possibilities.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
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