Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #6

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HP

Your S12 is in limbo land. Clearly W is not in a good place and her aunts is chaotic and this reflects to a sensitive child.

Your IC will help you build S12 and guide you with his confidence. None of this unhappiness is s12 fault at all but it's possible that if s12 thought s12 was better that this would not have happened. Children have strange connections that adults would seem to think impossible. IC will help you.

W is clever taking s12 somewhere to a different environment will be exciting and away from the pressures of aunts. Aunt sounds amazing to take in W and have S to stay especially with a small baby. Not ideal but stability anyway that is something to be thankful for W and S12 are with family.

If you come from a place of love, then there will be no anger, anger is absent from a loving heart. A loving heart is always a good place to start. Warmth and the higher ground is important. I see Sandi and 25 as in the same place with different views. Firm on boundary infringements and warm on interactions. Cut short the spew and arguments, reward the positives.

HP your posts track your journey, no difficulty in seeing the changes for the good. There is more to come.
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