Jim0987 #10 - getting ready for mk8

[jim0987]

Thank you. I hope you enjoyed dinner.

I know its the emotion, we haven't been a couple for 4 months so in a lit of ways nothing is changing. Its just a few days to get through. And to be honest the last few days the only thing she asks me (4 times last night) is 'are you going out tonight?'

I just struggle to reconcile how we got here in terms of her opinion of me? how she manages to believe what she seems to believe about me? And how I turn that around (which I get is still me wanting to control).

It doesn't help that her sister and PF pile in with how awful I am and how unfair I'm being about the settlement. She's cheating and leaving, do they seriously expect me to say 'here have everything. Don't worry I'll just walk away and not worry about me or the kids'

That was never going to happen.