Sorry! sent that before it was finished! Don't want to hijack your thread so if you are interested in my sitch it is in newcomers 'do I tell him all I know'. I am bored with my own sitch by now!
Also if Brightfuture is reading this, maybe some insight?? The Russian woman he is with (mainly) seems like a nice woman, intelligent, independant (aged 42, single, no children) and he seems to have manipulated her very well - she really has no idea who he is, he tells her he loves her but he tells me he doesn't know what love is anymore - I feel sorry for her, he uses online dating sites while he is with her. she didnt know he was married when they met two years ago and was upset, told him she didnt want to be with a married man - but he manipulated her and she changed her mind (in a few days!).
