Yes on gathering Intel. Reason is to verify the truth. W has been lying about ending the affair with OM, and it is obvious she is arranging her life to be with him. She has been trying to get a job to work with him, now she is looking at apartments to move to his city.
UpperCut Me: 28 W: 25 Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home) S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15) No kids
