Thanks guys, I believe all of the finances have been settled with the signing of the separation agreement so there should be no more issue on that end. I'm not overly sure why she wants to file now especially since it wont be effective until July anyway. W has always been one to move very, very, very quickly when she wants something. Here's the draft for my email;

"W,

I don't want to end our marriage, but I won't stand in your way. I respect your decision but I disagree with it. If you would like the lawyer to file now here is my address. Just let me know what you decide.

I am doing very well and enjoying my new place, thank you for asking."

There are a few other logistical things to add but they aren't really important so I'll add those after. Even just writing this it feels silly, she doesn't love me any more and clearly wants out. Should I even bother with the "I don't want to end our marriage, but I won't stand in your way. I respect your decision but I disagree with it." or just tell her to go ahead. Thoughts?

Thanks again guys


Me 28 W 27
T 10 M 2
No kids (fertility issues - mine)
Bomb 7/20/2014 - EA Confirmed
W moved out 9/15/14
W dating OM 11/22/14