I have the books, they have been very helpful. Though I don't think I'm quite finding my situation in them. That being, what do I do if she is just not responding or reaching out and when I reach out she just ignores? I'm assuming I should just give complete space for a while, I guess this would fall under the "Last Resort Technique". That's what I've been doing mostly. Maybe I should keep continuing with that approach for a while. But it's been over a couple weeks. Which if I remember what Michele says is the time to wait before something new is attempted.
I'm just so nervous with the threat of divorce on the table
I do need to keep patient and persistent. I will continue to GAL. It feels good when I'm out and doing this that are making me happy and growing myself.