Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #6

[HPoirot]

Hey thanks bravo. I'm trying. I feel, though, that when I get comfortable and give my W an inch, she goes and takes a million miles.

We had that horrible screaming R talk Wednesday night about her falling into her A and not wanting to stop contacting him. The next day... I say I'm moving forward and do not want to hear from her. More ugliness. I make one phone call and ask about her day. She appreciated that and bought me groceries. Tonight I listened again to her talk about her problems at her aunt's house and I help by taking S12 tonight. She bought us dinner again tonight.

Now she texts me... "How are you? It was very nice to talk to you on Wednesday."

What?

We were screaming at each other on Wednesday. She was calling me an MoFo and a p*ssy and a coward on Wednesday. Maybe she forgot that. This new person she is certainly does forget the things she says.

Even more funny... a month ago when I said I knew about her PA and kicked her out the condo... she unfriended me on FB. Now tonight she texts... "Sorry I unfriended you on FB. I sent you a friend request. Will you accept it?"

Nice.

So, what would it cost me? I'm thinking it would cost me her treating me like we're buddies minutes after all the pain and destruction and cursing and screaming. That's not self-respect.

I listen very closely to what 25 says about empathy and what Sandi says about the reasons WAW show disrespect. Trying to find the line between those two places. She just seems to keep changing the line.

Off to the basketball game then. Good luck to you Bravo.