IF he is unwilling to let you check up on him, there is a problem...conversely if he is willing to let you check up on him it is your job over time to stop looking as long as he keeps showing you there isno reason to doubt him.
Yes, yes, yes, yes, YES! Gawd, why can't I wrap up my 6 freakin' paragraphs of thoughts in one digestible sentence like that? I need an editor. Hallelujah, JTB! Thank you!!!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014