I thought everything was okay.....(Part 3)

[MCS]

So, Mozza will be mad at me on this; but I can see that I messed up DB today.

She came and picked up the kids. D4 and I were in the middle of putting Lego's together. W came to the door and walks two steps in, like normal. D4 ran over to her to say hi and then this conversation started between her and D4

D4: "Mommy, come look at what Daddy and I are building"
W "No D4, I'm fine here"
D4 "Mommy please come look" (starts pulling her by the hand)
W "No, I'm not going. I'll have to see later"
D4 "Come on mommy" (now D4 is on the ground with her feet up against the wall trying to make W move)

At that point, I had enough. I said:

"W, just go in and see the Lego's. She just wants to show you"

So W looked at me and walked in to see it. It wasn't my place to say anything, but this is part of my frustration when she's doing it to the kids.

So, then we were getting their shoes on them and D4 comes up to me and gives me a hug and says "Daddy, I don't want to go to Mommy's; I want to stay with you"

I just said, "No, D4 you need to go to Mommys, I love you very much"

Uggh.....Why can't I just ignore this stuff???