I too don't see any negatives from Friday night not only did I have a candle light dinner and good conversation and the parting statement that I really looked good but I did notice that all the mementos were still there and when I was in her bedroom trying to hook up the satilite receiver to her 2nd tv I noticed that my underwear was still in "my drawer".
I agree that she is confused - SIL also told me this and that C has a lot on her plate right now. I will work on me and have fun with dates until she decides - if something better comes along in the meantime - well that is her problem. I choose to be happy.
Forgiving her - Well I have told her that I do forgive her but she has not really asked me to forgive either. I have told her that I believe a Marriage can survive an A and that I wanted ours to work. but right now any movement toward getting back together has to be from her. (Friday is a step in that direction but she has to continue - I am not going to pursue)
