Thank you so much for this, Raliced.

I too am so grateful to this community. This has been the hardest year of my life and I have turned to this site during moments of absolute despair.

I cannot thank everybody enough for taking the time to offer sympathy, advice and wisdom during very dark times.

I think I am becoming a better person, thanks to the DB principles and all you wonderful people!


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014