Starsky, someone mentioned Thumper's mom's advice on the thread-that-shall-not-be-named (because we're POSITIVE here!), and I have to be honest: I felt like the biggest dipschtick when I had to Google it to remember what she said. (Yes, I'm admitting that.)
And then when I saw it, I was like: Duh.
You know, us southern peaches tend to take a more "Steel Magnolias" approach: "If you've got nothing nice to say, come sit by me."
Kidding!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014