T0, read what cat and I just pretty-much cross-posted: Practically the very same message. That happened with 25 and me last night. You know what that tells ME?
This is like that pebble story: You have the pebble pressed against your nose, so close to your eyes that you can't even see it. But we are all seeing it on the ground. That's because we're on the outside, seeing things as they are. When two or more people are telling you the very same thing, you can take it to the bank, sista.
Breathe.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014