I'll make it simple: M only 2 years, wife doubting decision W totally in love with OM - no PA - OM respects marriage to certain extend & doesn't know she's madly in love but likes her She is still lying about intensity of feelings, I snooped and know everything W best friend bad influence and pro D D around the corner (no lawyer involved yet) to get to be together with OM - but on hold until I get my greencard Her family doesn't know anything, she is very secretive about everything (awesome family I hit rock bottom yesterday - hardly can eat, sleep, do anything. Lost a lot of weight. Trying to GAL and detach and DB right. Therapist appt Monday. Christian MC next week. (just me). DB coach next week.
Anyone expertise on involving family &How to deal with the advantage of information? I just need some new input in my misery
Thanks
Stop feeling misery and beat it by getting ahead of it. You will be fine either way getting the wife back with a new level of commitment OR knowing yourself and giving yourself the chance for a much better life than you thought you could before.
Get into good shape. Boxing might not be bad for the confidence. Just get in there and take it seriously.
Do some things outside the house that you really like to do.
