Devastated Husband; Need Advice...Part 2

[TLEE86]

Careful with letting work consume you. Isn't that what contributed to part of your sitch?

It was a huge part, probably 70% of it. But I don't have a choice. I do as Im told. I haven't been home before 1230am the past 4 nights. Im back by 7am. Long days...

You cannot simply just go through the motions and hope that "she comes to her senses." Because her senses? May tell her to move on. And then what?

Honestly? I never even really thought about this. I know W is unhappy, stressed, feeling alone etc. She says it all the time. Its not a bowl of Lucky Charms with just the Marshmellows for her. But I have always thought...when she comes out of the fog, she'll realize what we had together. Because she may not want to try again and deal with the drama of starting over and just rather start over with someone else. What you asked me? Scares the [censored] out of me

Ive been reading up on T2's sitch. And there is that definite similarity of doing something on her own, making it on her own. How she doesn't look physically or mentally healthy. And you know what? T2 has been DB'ing for years now. And it may not have the outcome he wants, regardless of if his STBXW is wondering about coming home. Ive been doing this for 3.5months...and Im scared of the outcome.