Thanks Cadet. I have seen them all and all of your names are familiar to me. Now I don't remember the details of all of the stories as they sort of blend together, but I have read yours.
I've been trying to focus on me. It's tough with two little ones as they have been my focus espacially since the wife has been detached from not only me, but them also.
M44, W38 S5,S3 Met - 09/07 Engaged - 2/08 Married - 11/08 New house - 10/13 Bomb dropped - 11/14 EA confirmed - 11/14 PA - strong suspicion WAW Plastic surgeries - 12/14 WAW stopped wearing rings - 12/31/14