I'll make it simple: M only 2 years, wife doubting decision W totally in love with OM - no PA - OM respects marriage to certain extend & doesn't know she's madly in love but likes her She is still lying about intensity of feelings, I snooped and know everything W best friend bad influence and pro D D around the corner (no lawyer involved yet) to get to be together with OM - but on hold until I get my greencard Her family doesn't know anything, she is very secretive about everything (awesome family I hit rock bottom yesterday - hardly can eat, sleep, do anything. Lost a lot of weight. Trying to GAL and detach and DB right. Therapist appt Monday. Christian MC next week. (just me). DB coach next week.
Anyone expertise on involving family &How to deal with the advantage of information? I just need some new input in my misery
Thanks
Get into good physical conditioning. Star to eat well. Try to lay off or do not consume alcohol or smoke.
I'd be in the gym working towards the best shape of my life. These affairs the hard WHIP of a crack they are can be used for motivation if you can focus on your goals. The gym will be automatic for you after 3 weeks. I'd go every day in those first 3 weeks until I am in the habit.
I'd be eating a good balanced diet full of protein and nutrients.
Also start looking good and doing things specifically for you only. Do things you love to do and feel good about it.
The wife may get off the ride with you, but that's no reason to get down on yourself.
