So, I hope to take the advice of the forum and use it as a way to document some feeling and situations. Was going to be a little mysterious and text her letting her know I was going to happen hour. She beat me to the punch. Asking me to pickup the kids from daycare because a "few of work people are goping to happy hour for co-worker's bday" "You would save me a BIG trip. LMK. Thx"

Gotta keep cool and somewhat detached. I responded "NP, I'll pick them up and take and drop them off for their playdate. Have fun." I didn't ask where, what time, with who, etc. Problem I face is I have friends who believe that she uis my wife, I should demand where she is going. Had to explain it doesn't work when you'rethis far into my situation.


M44, W38
S5,S3
Met - 09/07
Engaged - 2/08
Married - 11/08
New house - 10/13
Bomb dropped - 11/14
EA confirmed - 11/14
PA - strong suspicion
WAW Plastic surgeries - 12/14
WAW stopped wearing rings - 12/31/14