I'll make it simple: M only 2 years, wife doubting decision W totally in love with OM - no PA - OM respects marriage to certain extend & doesn't know she's madly in love but likes her She is still lying about intensity of feelings, I snooped and know everything W best friend bad influence and pro D D around the corner (no lawyer involved yet) to get to be together with OM - but on hold until I get my greencard Her family doesn't know anything, she is very secretive about everything (awesome family I hit rock bottom yesterday - hardly can eat, sleep, do anything. Lost a lot of weight. Trying to GAL and detach and DB right. Therapist appt Monday. Christian MC next week. (just me). DB coach next week.
Anyone expertise on involving family &How to deal with the advantage of information? I just need some new input in my misery
Thanks
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
