Devastated Husband; Need Advice...Part 2

[Calibri]

Bullet points, cause that's how I'm rolling today (and I'm super busy at work and sneaking this in as I scarf down my lunch.)

-You HAVE to GAL. Because what you're doing right now? Is not working for you. You are all that you are guaranteed in life. You can be your own worst enemy, or your biggest fan. Your W may never come back. I know that [censored] to think about, and it [censored] to read it. But, T, it may take her a few more weeks, a few more months, a few more years before she makes a decision about anything. You cannot simply just go through the motions and hope that "she comes to her senses." Because her senses? May tell her to move on. And then what? The sooner you accept this, and the sooner you do GAL, the (slightly) easier this gets. It's not all rainbows and unicorns over here -- but I'm usually out of the house doing stuff 4 nights a week and I can tell you it helps immensely.

-The grass is always greener because it's fertilized with bulls*it.

- Careful with letting work consume you. Isn't that what contributed to part of your sitch?

-Have you seen an IC lately?

- You've got this.