I am not seeing it as a bad thing either - just that when you hope for the best but expect the worst I have to be prepared for the worst - then if the worst does not happen, anything else that happens will be better.
several things that do make me think it is not a bad thing. 1. she brought up me getting a big hug from a special little girl- if she was going to drop bomb #3 then I doubt she would bring up niece knowing that she would be making it harder for me to see her. 2. she asked me to come over on Friday night, if it was for bomb#3 I would think she would want the Friday night for OG. 3. plus some other minor things too. Of course maybe I should act as if - that she will say she has thought over what she did and is very sorry and now wants to work on us.
I am in good spirits for Friday night but want it to get here soon.
PS - I also have a date with Niece and nephew for this Sunday afternoon for the burger king playground. When I talked with SIL about picking them up she was very friendly and we chit chatted some - If she knew about any bad news comming my way (and if it was I am sure she would know) then I think she would be a lot more reserved in her conversation.
