Wanting to reconcile with your W is reason enough to not speak with OW, but it appears that may be out for you (correct me if that is wrong). Here's another reason: stop chumming it up with your former affair partner because she is someone else's wife. It's entirely inappropriate.
-PM
Originally Posted By: sandi2
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Here's another reason: stop chumming it up with your former affair partner because she is someone else's wife. It's entirely inappropriate.
I have to agree with this, HP. You are emotionally vulnerable right now. It makes you feel a little too good when she talks to you, plus she's calling more often. Just b/c she lives in another country does not prevent an A. You don't want to be on the same level as your W's OM.
Understood and you are both right. I will stop chumming it up with her. Thank you.
Last edited by HPoirot; 01/16/1507:58 PM.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014