Originally Posted By: PatientMan
Wanting to reconcile with your W is reason enough to not speak with OW, but it appears that may be out for you (correct me if that is wrong). Here's another reason: stop chumming it up with your former affair partner because she is someone else's wife. It's entirely inappropriate.

-PM


Originally Posted By: sandi2
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Here's another reason: stop chumming it up with your former affair partner because she is someone else's wife. It's entirely inappropriate.


I have to agree with this, HP. You are emotionally vulnerable right now. It makes you feel a little too good when she talks to you, plus she's calling more often. Just b/c she lives in another country does not prevent an A. You don't want to be on the same level as your W's OM.




Understood and you are both right. I will stop chumming it up with her. Thank you.

Last edited by HPoirot; 01/16/15 07:58 PM.

Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014