Strong EA after 2 years of marriage. Need advice.

[Mozza]

Hey Complex -- Sorry to hear. Unfortunately, you're outside of my areas of "expertise". I've never had an opportunity to snoop, so I've never learnt how to deal with it. My instinct is to gather the intelligence to understand what she thinks but doesn't tell you. There seems to be a lot there about what she'd like you to do differently, but I don't know if her A doesn't cloud her judgement. What I can say is that you really shouldn't panic about the tone and the content of her texts. Again, it's right on script. What else do you think that WAW say about OP? "Oh, I don't like him a lot, he's not very handsome, hope he doesn't call tomorrow...."? Of course not. Also, what do you think they say about the LBS? Exactly what your WAW says.

As for the family, I don't know exactly either. My instinct is that you don't need to get involved. Time has a way of making things clear. My WAW announced she was in an R with a new colleague 1.5 month after leaving me. I think people will figure out what happened on their own.

Your sitch is just getting started. The end of the tunnel is too far for you to see the light yet.