I agree with you that holding on to anger hurts both parties. I, like you, choose forgiveness more easily also. This wasn't always the case and I am much better off now that I have learned how to forgive.
I also agree with the Our Father being very powerful
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014