Good and interesting story Mozza. With a good ending. Felt like I read my own story, only to th point that OM is at her work and things went down from there. But the description of how she felt I think is very accurate for describing the early stage of an EA.

Sorry to hear about your developments. We have kind of a similar case. I feel like my wife thinks she can always return. She just knows, even if I show different action. And right now she probably would even feel better about her decision if she sees me happy.

Stay strong Mozza. It's so obvious how much you love her and what good of a person you are. Time will show her.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15