nit84, I am sorry that your wife hasn't been able to forgive you. For me, holding onto to past hurts is unbearable for both parties. I think I may choose forgiveness more easily than others, but it is almost selfish because I just find it harms me more to hold on to anger. I prefer to move forward. I always think of that line in the Our Father, "forgive us our trespasses,: as we forgive those who trespass against us." Pretty powerful line, in my opinion.
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015
