I think a lot of WAS's say that - it's not about OM/OW - it's about us/me/how unhappy I feel etc.
And it partly is of course, because the A probably wouldn't have happened were it not for some problems within the M. But right now, a lot of this is about OM/OW and until they are out of the picture, it is hard to focus on the M.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
