I'm so sorry for what you are going through. It is awful to see some of these things. And now you know what you know and have the 'measure' of things, you may want to stop snooping for now - because it's torture.
One thing to remember is that these scenarios very much have a script and your W 'thinks' she is in love with OM. In reality, very few As actually turn out to be 'love' when tested in the real world. They are in fact 'infatuation' which can pass. But it may well take your W a while to realise that....or she may never do so.
This is why it is best to focus on you..
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
