Question now is what do I do with this information?
Some of the quotes in the messages to her friend are so outrageous. "He is coming back tomorrow, I'm annoyed :/", "I want to date 'movie star x' he has his life together, I want to [censored] him", she calls OM "boyfriend", "this starts to feel so real", "I want a baby with OM". "Me and H just talked again, same [censored] than 6 months ago, motherfucker, I'm over it", guess that's enough examples.
Hey bro this is how it is. Many of the cheaters have devil's advocate's in their ears pushing hard. Basically telling them what to think. The cheater obviously wants their acceptance and to fit in with them.
Originally Posted By: Complex
It's incredible how deep this is. Clearly influenced by her friend tho. Very disturbing. Not the person I know. Not the person her family knows her. Completely out of control. But I know she has a good heart. But she was such a good liar. She will find a way to "explain" and justify her actions.
I'm glad you were able to determine this. Really you probably shouldn't be listening to what she says anymore when you realize how much she lies to you particularly.
Originally Posted By: Complex
Wonder if she will break with family over that. Her dad is not going to pay a second marriage, that's for sure....I won't tell them now but I won't cover the truth, and I'm sure try want to know WHY. I'll be as loving and understanding as I can. My heart changed. I won't go to the dark side again...
Btw she actually wants to help me with my greencard. Only time when she is threatening with quick D is when we have discussions.
She also texted me earlier and said "I screwed this up, I want to do things right now" I was just "ok". She has no idea...
