Question now is what do I do with this information?
Some of the quotes in the messages to her friend are so outrageous. "He is coming back tomorrow, I'm annoyed :/", "I want to date 'movie star x' he has his life together, I want to [censored] him", she calls OM "boyfriend", "this starts to feel so real", "I want a baby with OM". "Me and H just talked again, same [censored] than 6 months ago, motherfucker, I'm over it", guess that's enough examples.
It's incredible how deep this is. Clearly influenced by her friend tho. Very disturbing. Not the person I know. Not the person her family knows her. Completely out of control. But I know she has a good heart. But she was such a good liar. She will find a way to "explain" and justify her actions. Wonder if she will break with family over that. Her dad is not going to pay a second marriage, that's for sure....I won't tell them now but I won't cover the truth, and I'm sure try want to know WHY. I'll be as loving and understanding as I can. My heart changed. I won't go to the dark side again...
Btw she actually wants to help me with my greencard. Only time when she is threatening with quick D is when we have discussions.
She also texted me earlier and said "I screwed this up, I want to do things right now" I was just "ok". She has no idea...
You can help her to do right by pulling your emotional and financial support completely. LOL
My lady is also a master sweet talker, can explain anything. Is a master of fog navigation.
